David Foster utilizes the idea of
getting up for work and doing grocery shopping in order to deliver a message
that freedom and self-fulfillment is achieved through empathy and mindful
awareness of people and their situations. A perfect example is used to develop his
argument when he mentions that a phrase so simple from the checkout worker such
as, “have a nice day” can completely change when one is sympathetic and conscious.
Many of us
have encountered situations where we jump to conclusions about someone without
considering situational factors. Instead of getting angry at the lady taking
too long at the cash register or getting angry at traffic, think of how that
lady’s life may be or why the traffic is caused and the effect that it’s had on
other people. Once someone is able to be more mindful and view the world with a
different lens, life won’t be a difficult thing to get through every day. Being
self-centered is the only thing that opens the gate for someone to feel as if
they are going through the day with the same routine trying to find self-fulfillment
when in reality self-fulfillment comes from focusing on other people and having
a more conscious awareness of life.
One of our
inquiry questions is directly related to this essay: “How can literature
develop empathy and emotional intelligence?” Because it’s important to know
other people’s lives and be more aware of surroundings in order to develop
empathy, literature can do the same. When reading about others’ lives and engaging
yourself with a character with self-awareness and consciousness, you can start
to develop empathy for the characters and become more mindful about their
situations. That can then transfer onto real life into the reach for
self-acceptance and full peace.